Thank you for visiting Baloani, which I hope will prove to be a great point of reference for your personal philosophical
and spiritual journey.
My name is Paul Becque. When I first dated my wife, she called me Beqster, and the name has stuck! Now my friends and work colleagues use it too.
Since I was a child I wanted to know what life is all about. Consequently, I’ve studied many different beliefs and kept an open mind.
Buddhism and Taoism have been very inspirational for me. And, more recently, “The Secret” and our growing knowledge of quantum physics has taken me to an even deeper level of commitment to my discoveries. “Baloani” is simply a video diary of my journey and a reference point for anyone that resonates with my exploration.
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Welcome to “Baloani®” version 2!!! And a big thank you to everyone that has offered advice and provided me with fabulous ideas. I’ve listened and added as many of your suggestions as possible. These changes have certainly helped me to move a step closer to generating a great network identifier... there are more links than ever and access to the materials has improved 100%. If adding the list of films under the “Inspiration” tab proves to be useful, I will be happy to increase the topics to health (fitness, food and meditation), wealth (money saving ideas) and love (self confidence, family, dating)... all of these ideas are designed to make “Baloani®” a really fun, friendly and useful site for anyone that believes in, or wants to learn more about, the “Law of Attraction”.
But let’s not forget that the number one goal of “Baloani®” is to prove that the “Law of Attraction” is a universal force, just like gravity... so let’s get back to this weeks task... to read the lifetime goals that I set myself last week, three times a day. Sounds simple enough, right? Yep, that’s what I thought.
Here’s the difficulty I encountered... and it will probably be a different experience
for everyone. DOUBT AND JOY! The emotional journey was a roller coaster... Running
through my mind the feeling of excitement if I am able to prove that all of this
really works and achieve those goals... Living my dream life in the next few years,
making a movie, living in Amersham, driving my Porsche. But on the other hand, what
if it all goes pear-
I wondered why I had decided to go for the dream life instead of my original plan that Jack Canfield had suggested at the start of his book, to double my income and the amount of time I take off. And I know the answer. I believe in this law, I believe in myself... I believe that we are all spirits with an incredible power that we just need to access to enjoy the full joys of the world... a little bit like a computer program... I use my Microsoft Word on a regular basis, but I bet it has a huge number of facilities that I don’t even know about. And I remember hearing someone say that we only use 10% of our brain, have you heard that one? Well, I wanna access a little more of the other 90%... and this could be the way to do it... so that’s why I’m going for the big ones, and NOT playing it safe.
Jack Canfield says that you can expect these emotions to emerge... he calls them Considerations, Fears and Roadblocks... so let’s look at those in greater detail.
Considerations are simply the reasons why we are unable to achieve our goals... well that’s easy to understand. I’m going for the big one, the dream life. How on earth am I supposed to get from where I am to where I wanna get? From my old banger to a Porsche? My little town house to a beautiful period home? My little tv job to acting in a film?
Fears are feelings that we get... and this is the one that really got to me. Fear about failing, fear about looking foolish, fear about being wrong. Sometimes my mind would run wild imaging the worst outcomes. I have had to work hard to stay connected with my vision and stick to the goals from last week... It almost feels like I want to “chicken out” and go for something easier, more achievable, and then go for the bigger goals... hey, you’ve got to learn to walk before you can run, right?
Roadblocks are external circumstances that are not in your head... such as lack of money, lack of education, lack of support, planning permission, change of laws etc. I don’t see myself as having any roadblocks because I don’t need financial support, training or support... I simply need to take action.
I really believe that these emotions have held many of us back from achieving our
dream lives. When I delve into my own past and look for reasons that I would FEAR
my progression it is pretty easy to piece everything together. I’m sure you’ll be
able to look through your own life experiences and work it out... things you were
told by your parents, siblings, friends and teachers. We become a bundle of conditions
that we are taught and tend to them believe throughout our lives, our job is to break-
Here’s the upside of all of this. By reading the cards three times a day, and carry the big goal in my wallet, my dream life is becoming really clear, colourful and real in my mind. It’s something I want. It’s something I’m passionate about and the more I think about it, and see it, the more excited I become... I can actually feel the excitement in my body. This week I’ve been more energised, more upbeat and smiling more than ever... some could argue it’s because it’s spring and the sun has been out... and that’s probably a part of it... but I really believe it’s the thought of succeeding... damn that feels good!
Diet. Another reason for the increased energy level may well be the new diet I’m enjoying, and I am enjoying it. I’ve even found it easy to say no to biscuits and crisps because I am “thinking thin”. And the more I reinforce my new way of eating the better I feel about myself... it feels great! I also came across a great website on the internet, a free of charge service from the NHS which is fabulous... really, its fab. And today I received their package for my own personal health MOT! A great deal of it makes sense... it’s what we might know, but haven’t put into action... even if you don’t believe in the “Law of Attraction”, visit the site, and make a change 4 life today!
Exercise. This has got to be the weakest link of my successes to date, because I haven’t yet jumped on my bicycle or gone running around the local park. But I have been out in the garden for three days and I’m walking to the shops instead of taking the car... so it’s an improvement, and improvements are what we are after. Tyler, my fitness instructor, would be happy... but not jubilant.
Distinguished Talkers. This week I bought a ticket to participate in Mike Dooley’s world tour “Playing the Matrix”. He’ll be in Manchester on Sunday... so I’ll be able to tell you more next week... but hey, it’s one of my goals, and when I added it last week, I had no idea I would be meeting Mike within two weeks!
Make a Difference to People’s Lives. Again, when I wrote this in last weeks blog, I had no idea that I would receive a letter from Barry Jones. I knew from my Facebook account that many people enjoy watching me on the shopping channel Bid tv, and I was confident that I make people smile and even laugh at times... because we do get crazy sometimes... watch this video clip to see what I mean! I recently received this letter, which takes my work to a new level. Thanks Barry! Much appreciated!!!
Parking Ticket. And finally, I wrote to the local council regarding the penalty charge for parking on the pavement whilst delivering the goodies to the charity shop (assay 6), and to date, have had no response... my wife says, no news is good news.
So, it’s been a great week... and I can only seeing it getting better. If you are following my progress, and even better, if you are contemplating watching “The Secret” or following Jack Canfield’s “The Success Principles”... I suggest you really take the time to apply each idea... don’t just absorb it and move on... make a change, make a change today!
Next week we learn to “chunk it down”, which means taking those massive goals and making them more achievable. See ya then...
Nerve racking! A week of
ups and downs. An emotional journey that contends with any roller coaster. Can I do it? Can’t I? This is so exciting! I must be crazy!!! The joy of planning a dream life, the fear of making it come true... How the hell can I achieve these goals? Career, house, cars, health &
wealth!
Only those who dare to fail greatly,
can ever achieve greatly.
You want to set a goal that is big enough
that in the process of achieving it
you become someone worth becoming.
Nigel Cottrell 24 March 2010, 09:05:21
Hi Paul... picked up this link from facebook, and wow looks like your starting on
a very interesting and testing journey... I played the week 8 clip and have decided
to follow your progress to see how you get on, you have my support every step of
the way... if you get to act in a movie I will be the first to cheer from the roof
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Tyler Smith 24 March 2010, 03:53:08
Glad the change in diet is working for you, buddy. Now just get your ass in gear and start exercising. Oh yeah...love the new website.
Nick Shephard 26 March 2010, 22:30:55
Hi paul.. have a super duper weekend. Please share with us wot he (Mike Dooley) is like and wot you learn...
Nigel Cottrell 27 March 2010, 08:46:10
hi paul... good luck for sunday... let me share this law of attraction example with
you... last week I started to look for a car for my son... he wants an old suzuki
jeep (rhino)... nothing on e-
Patricia Piper 29 March 2010, 05:41:09
Fantastic! I'm jealous. Was it a conference or something like that? Have a great week Baloani man!
Marcelle Wilson 29 March 2010, 11:55:34
Awesome site! from South Africa.
Martin Zierhut 29 March 2010, 14:52:32
Hi, Paul! Congrats on blog and spreading the word about The Secret! I totally believe in the Law of Attraction and Channeling. It’s all in the universe and we are all part of it. Even if you are in England and think of something intensely it might just trigger some friend in Australia to react to your thought. Happened to me when I thought about calling my Mom from LA and the moment I picked up the phone she was already there! Unbelievable and no coincidence, I believe! Keep your spirits up, buddy! Life is wonderful!!! Big hug from Vienna.
Caroline Oram 9 June 2010, 21:19:26
Hey Paul, just read your Fear blog and you speak very true and wise words. The only thing to fear is fear itself! But it is surprising how much it can hold us back and stop us doing things we love. Sometimes I look at the worst possible outcome, think of what it could do, and say "I'll handle it", if you thought of the worst possible outcome and know you'll be ok then it takes away the fear factor if you know what I mean! Hope you’re ok love caz xxx
Caroline Oram 9 June 2010, 21:19:26
Brill’ video like usual Paul. Fear is a massive one for me! and I think for most people. defo sumthing you have to fight... the fear! and fight your own mind to face it until it leaves... wotever fear your facing in your life. I guess wotever doesnt kill you only can make you stronger. Im going to face my fear on monday morning at Princes Trust e.g. Havin to speak in front of people as I’m quite shy... but I’m going to try my best! Now I know wot I want in my life for the first time. I look up 2 u on telly as your very amazin’ wot you do and Bob Proctor talks with energy passion same as you both really. Love wot you do... which makes you a lot stronger when you find that in your life.
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